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Қиз туғиш айбми? November 6, 2007

Posted by ayollar in Aralash Mavzular, Mayishiy Zo'ravonlik, Oila va Turmush Tarzi.
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Яқинда бир танишим билан телефон орқали гаплашиб қолдим. У жуда хафа эди.Айтишича, қайнонаси уларга агар қайинсинглиси ўғил туғса, сизлар оласизлар деб айтибди.Танишимнинг эри онасига индамабди.Хотинига, яъни танишимга агар унинг боласини олишни истамасанг ўзинг ўғил туғ дебди.Ўртоғим ҳозир нима қилишни билмай қолган.Гап шундаки, уларнинг оилада бешта фарзандлари бор. Бешаласи ҳам қиз.Биринчи боласи туғилганда эри роса хурсанд бўлган чунки икки йил фарзанд бўлмаганди.Ундан кейин яна қиз туғилди.Кейин яна.Бундай бўлишини кутмаган куёв бола иккаласида хам роса хафа бўлган туғруқхонага ҳам бормаган.Бу ношукурчилиги худога ёқмади.Иккала боласи ҳам 1-2 ёшда нобуд бўлди. Кейинги болаларини туғиш ўртоғим учун бир катта синовга айланди. У кунни қўрқув билан кутадиган бўлди. Чунки уйидан жанжал аримайдиган, эри ичадиган, уни урадиган, болаларига яхши гапирмайдиган бўлиб колди. Қайнонаси эса, ўғлимга ўғил туғиб берадиганидан олиб бераман деб юрди. Яхшики, ўғил онасининг шу гапини қилмади.Мен уларникига бориб қолсам, тезроқ уйга қайтгим келиб қолади.Сабаби бешта қизалоқнинг қўрқибгина ўтириши, эр-хотиннинг бир-бирига муомаласини кўриб юрагим сиқилади.Нега бундай қўрс гаплашасизлар, десам биз ҳар доим шундай ўрганиб колганмиз, дейди ўртоғим.Дадасига эркалик қилишни билмайдиган болажонларнинг айби эса-уларнинг қиз бўлиб туғилгани.
Юлдуз.

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1. Orzuhon - November 17, 2007

Qiz tug’ish aybmi degan savolning uzi ayb!
Qiz yoki o’g’il tug’ish tibbiy tomondan tushuntirganda ayolga bog’liq emas. Ayolning barcha tuxumi ‘qiz’ buladi, agar unga X hromosomli sperma tushsa, qiz buladi, Y hromosom tushsa u’g’il – bular esa erkakka bog’liq. Buni tushunmagan sodda va ahmoq odamlar ayolni ayblaydilar

Endi, bu tibbiy tomondan tushuntirish. Bizning jamiyatimiz hali ham ayollarni erkaklarga teng kurmaydi, shuning uchun ham qiz bolalar ‘yarim bola’ hisoblanadi… Afsus!

Bunday ayol erini tashlab ketishi kerak! Uning jinniligiga qarab utirishdan nima foyda!

2. reinstate@freewill.com - April 13, 2008

As people begin to age the gods employ corrupting tactics. They ultimately begin to look down on the children and the wisdom they recently understood:::
They voluntarily turn their back on their opportunity to ascend and instead embrace evil.
It’s not old people who go to heaven. Old people must come back because of the mistakes they’ve made throughout their lives. Children are the ones who have the opportunity to ascend.

Children are discounted by adults in society. The gods corrupt people as they age, use trust-building tactics and soon adults view the children as ignorant, yet to understand the god’s system, and subsequently look down on the children. This is one of the most bitter, painful ironies the gods employ, for people consciously turn their back on and lose their opportunity to ascend::::
Religions teach that old people to go to heaven when they die. They don’t. Old people are reincarnated. It’s the children who go to heaven.
The wisdom the gods impart to children, either through their innocence/purity or religious-based educational pursuits are the gods sharing the truth with their most favored people::::It’s the children whom the gods teach the right way for it is the children who have a chance. For example, they teach children to have faith, for understanding the god’s geographical clues hurts people by illustrating negative things, opening the door for the god’s to employ deceptive tactics.
Old people don’t go to heaven. Old people must come back because of the mistakes they’ve made throughout their lives. It’s the children who have the opportunity to go to “heaven”. They must behave apprioriately, think correctly and be genuinely god-fearing. Their innocence and lack of desensitization ensures they have a real opportunity to achieve this goal.

This is charecteristic of the gods methodology::::The big prize gone early, deception compels people to chase something that has already been decided. They sent this clue with boss as well. It is also a clue supporting my claim RW&B’s german is in fact Christianity’s Anti-Christ. Logic also dictates, considering the definition.
The confusion over this multi-dimentional positioning will serve as an effective tactic, eliminating many additional disfavored in the process, for positioning states the Apocalypse to be a continuation of WorldWarII’s Aryan superrace ideals, positioned as punishment for the 5th century invastion of the Roman Empire:::John’s Fourth Reich.
This amounts only to “nested theater”:::::Levels of positioning enables the gods to scapegoat:::::RW&B merely is the tool the gods chose to execute the final scene of their scripted theater that is human history.

3. nomalum shahs - May 26, 2008

usha mujjikni manga tugirlavorila, bir qiz tugdirib kuramiz uziga. ana ushanda biladi hotinini va qizlarini qadrini /uzr qupollik uchun/
ekkaningni urasan-da pettuh.


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