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“Қорни тўқ хотинлар сахифаси”… July 24, 2006

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Битта дугонамнинг Ўзбекистондаги қайнисингли Аёллар Бекати билан танишиб чиқиб, “Бу сахифа қорни тўқ аёллар учун экан” дебди. Бу гап мени ўйлантириб қўйди. Албатта бунда хақиқат бор: биттамиз Англияда, бошқамиз Францияда, учинчи ёзувчи аёлимиз Америкаларда яшаяпмиз, бизнинг турмуш тарзимиз, бошимизга тушган муаммолар Ўзбекистонлик аёлларникидан анча фарқ қилади. Бу ҳеч ким учун сир эмас. Аммо қоринларимиз тўқ бўлиши – хаётларимиз муаммосиз дегани эмас. Ота оналаримиз, ука-сингилларимиздан узоқда мусофирчиликда қийинчиликларимизни енгиб яшаб келаяпмиз. Бошқа томондан эса биз ичимизда ўзимизни Ўзбекистондaги аёлларга яқин тутамиз, уларнинг дардларию муаммолари хақида қайғурамиз. Қолаверса қорни оч (кўчма маънода айтганда) ва рухий ёрдамга кўпроқ мухтож бўлган сингилларимизга кўмак мақсадида ушбу сахифани очишга қарор қилган эдик. Афсус вақт ўтаяптию, ўзбекистонлик сингилларимиз ёзишмаяпти… Истасак истамасак ҳам, саҳифамиз “қоринлари тўқ аёллар сайти”га айланаяпти… Хуллас Ўзбекистонда бу сайтни ўқаётган дугоналаримизга илтимос – саҳифамизга ўз хаётингиз, муаммоларингиз хақида ёзиб туринглар! Аёллар Бекатининг яхши тарафи шундаки истаган одам хақиқий отини билдирмасдан ёзиши мумкин. Бу эса ҳар кимга ўз фикр мулоҳазаларини эркин изҳор этишга имконият беради. Кимки техник сабаблар орқали ёза олмаса, мана менинг манзилим: shoyiras@yahoo.co.uk __дугонангиз Шоира…

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1. Malika - July 25, 2006

Aziz Uzbekistondagi opa-singillar!
Bizning iqtisodiy ahvolimiz juda yahshi bo’lsa ham (ya’ni qornimiz to’q) biz hanuz ayolmiz, va bizning o’zimizga yarasha tashvishlarimiz bor: oila, bolalar, ish, va hokazo. Biz sizlarning muammolarinigni bajonidil tinglaymiz, va uz fikrlarimizni bildiramiz, lekin buning uchun sizlar sahifamizga kirib o’z bilganlaringni yozishingiz kerak.

Xatlaringizni kutib qolamiz!
Malika malikabonu@gmail.com

2. Diydor - July 28, 2006

Азиз аёллар,

Мен ҳам Шоира ва Маликаларнинг фикрларига қўшилган ҳолда айтсам, бизнинг “қорнимиз тўқ, устимиз бут” бўлиши мумкин, аммо ўзимизга яраша ташвишларимиз бор. Шундай бўлса-да, ана шу ташвишлардан ортиб Ўзбекистондаги аёлларнинг дардларига малҳам бўлишни, уларни курранинг бошқа бурчакларида кечаётган воқеликлардан хабардор қилиб туришни истаган эдик. Айни мақсадга қанчалар эриша олаяпмиз, ёки йўқ буни Сиз азиз аёллар баҳолай оласиз. Келинг, даврамизга қўшилинг, ўзингизни ўйлантирган, жавоб топишга ожиз қолган саволларингизни ўртага ташланг, бизнинг фикрларимизга муносабат билдиринг. Биз Сиз учун доимо очиқмиз.

Дийдор

3. Munavvar - July 29, 2006

Hammaga salom,
uzbda ayollar bu yerga vaqt topib , pul topib kirishi kerak, lekin qani o’sha vaqt, qani o’sha pul? Internet ko’proq yoshlar tomonidan foydalaniladi, bizni ayollar esa bir biriga o’xshaydigan “hasan-husan” gazetalarn o’qishadi. Ayollar bekati, Hordiq, darakchi, deganday.
Bir yil uzbga borsam qaynopam maqtanayapti, man faqat shu gazetalarni uqiyman, uqib bilsam, rostdan ham hordiq chiqaradigan gazetalar, faqat voqealar sharhi, rivoyat, munajjimni yolgon gaplari. Uqishsin, yaxshi, lekin bu saviyani sayozlashtirayotganini shu qaynopam misolida ko’rdim. Buni ustiga uzimdan suramay qaysi bir yili chiqqan hikoyamni bir songa quyvorishibdi, qaynopam, kelin hikoyangizni uqidik, deydi, ismimni quyishganiga ham rahmat dedim.Uzbek jurnalistikasi baland past yullardan ketyapti,bu ketishda, bor saviyani, tajribani ham quldan boy berib quyamiz.
Jurnalistman, lekin uzbek jurnalistikasida hayotda ishlamaslikka qaror qilganimga ancha bulgan, tutiqush bulishni xohlamayman.
salom bilan
Munavvar

4. Abdulhofiz - August 15, 2006

Bismillahi arrohmanir arrohiym.
Bizni shu kunlarda urib turgan yuragimizning harakatini ta’minlagan olamlar robisi Alloh subhanahu wa taalaga hamd sanolar bo’lsin.
Mashaallah.bu saytning ochilishi juda yahshi ish bo’lgan desam adashmayman. Chunki hozirda uzbek ayollari uchun hali biron bir sayt ko’rmagandim(yaqinda ochilgan islam.uz saytining ayollar bo’limini hisobga olmaganda).
Lekin ha deb ayollarning fikrlari berilib erkaklarniki chetda qolib ketsa ham to’g’ri ish bo’lmaydi. Chunki har doim ham erkkaklar yo ayollar gunohkor yo jabrdiyda bo’lavermaydilar.
Shu uchun sayt ravnaqi uchun barchani bu yerga dawat qilish kerak.
Inshaallah ayollarimiz hali o’zlari bilmaydigan huquqlari haqida ham shu yerdan habar topishsa ham ajab emas.
Bu sayt a’zolari kamligiga keladigan bo’lsak sizlarda tashviqot ishi yahshiga o’hshamaydi.chunki bir necha kun oldin men ham bu saytni kutilmaganda ko’rib qoldim. Shu uchun iloji boricha bu saytni “REKLAMA” qilish kerak.
Qanday qilib degan savolga esa : Uzbek portallaridan ruhsat so’rab Banner(reklama qo’yish), yoki uzbek saytlaridagi forumlarga kirib sayt adresini yozib qoldirish, talabalrdan unumli forydalanish…
Qorin och yo to’qlikka keladigan bo’lsak bunga meni fikrim ozgina boshqacharoq. “Bizning iqtisodiy ahvolimiz juda yahshi bo’lsa ham (ya’ni qornimiz to’q) biz hanuz ayolmiz, va bizning o’zimizga yarasha tashvishlarimiz bor: oila, bolalar, ish, va hokazo.” Degan fikrga qo’shilaman lekin shu bilan birgalikda yana bir boshqa tomon bor. Qo’pol qilib aytganda “Qorni to’q “ opa singillarimiz “qorni och” singillarimizdan butkul farq qiladi. Bu bir tomonlama farq bo’lmay balkim ko’p jihatdan:
Iqtisod,
Erkin fikr yuritish,
Etika,
Psihologiya, …(kabi)
Lekin sodda qishloq ayollari hali internetni qayerdan bilishsin va ulardan haligacha hech kim bu masalalarda ular bilan fikr almashishmagan. Shu uchun bu sayt sohiblariga bir kichkina maslahatim bor edi, balkim bu silarga ma’qul kelar. Yana bilmadim!? Vallahu A’lam
Menda bor ozgina ma’lumotga ko’ra sizlar hammalaring chetdasizlar.shunday ekan sizlar bilan o’zbekiston aksar ayollari bilan aloqa o’rnatishga imkon yo’q. shu uchun siz uzbekistondan o’zlarizga “muhbirlar” topinglar.
Allohdan ishlaringa hayr tilab, allohdan dunyodagi barcha Muslima opa singillarimizga Sihat salomatlik, bahtli, ishonchli, quvonchli hayot tilab qolaman.
ABDULHOFIZ , Tripoli

5. Nigora - August 16, 2006

Assalomu alaykum!
Sahifangizni “qorni to’q ayollar sahifasi” deb nomlashibdi. Gap qorinning och yoki to’qligida emas, balkim inson ma’naviyatining yuksakligida. Hohish, vaqt, imkoniyat bo’lsa, ayollarimiz bu sahifaga kirib, o’qib o’z fikr-mulohazalarini yozib qoldirishsa nur ustiga a’lo nur bo’lardi. Biroq……
Sahifangizga yurtdosh ayollarimizning kam kirish sababiga kelsak, ko’pchilik yurtdosh ayollarimiz tan olish kerak internet tizimidan foydalanishni hali mukammal bilishmaydi. Bu borada Yevropalik ayollar bizga qaraganda ilgarilab ketishgan.
Oddiy misol: yoshi 60-65 yoshlardagi rus ayoli mendan kompyuterda ishlash va internetdan foydalanish uchun qaysi o’quv kursiga borsam mukammalroq o’rganaman deb so’radi. Bu narsa esa yoshi katta ayollar o’rtasidabizning millatimizda kamdan kam hollarda uchraydi yoki umuman yo’q desak ham bo’ladi.
Millatimiz ayollari azaldan o’ziga xos bo’lgan sharqona madaniyat, yuksak saviya, otkir zehn va zakovatlari bilan ajralib turganlar Bunga misol qilib To’maris, Ravshanak, Bibixonim,Nodira, Zebunisobegim, Qurbonjon dodhohlarni keltirishimiz mumkin. Shunday ekan biz nafaqat ularning nomlarini faxr bilan tilga olishimiz, balkim ularga mos vorisa bo’lishimiz ham darkor deb o’ylayman.
Samimiyat ila Nigora

6. bashir guney - July 6, 2007

men xam shunaqa ki aylanayapmon azgına tilni esdan chıkarmoslikga xarakat kılyapmon lekin negadir otmish uzbekistandaki urtoklar tamonidan esdan chıkkan ularga xafoman sizlarga amon yar bolsın xammaga katta xurmatlar bilon turkıyadan salomlar…………….

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